Men Can Be Victims of Abuse, Too - The Hotline
male-victims At the Hotline, we know that domestic violence can affect anyone – including men. According to the CDC, one in seven men age. addressing this public health problem. Service providers typically see female rather than male victims of dating violence and, as a result, preven- tion programs . Survey of 'at risk' teens finds males as likely as females to suffer abuse.
The study focused on teens considered to be at high risk for dating violence -- those who had suffered or witnessed violence at home or in their neighborhoods. It turned out that boys were about as likely as girls to say they'd been victims of some form of dating violence. The pattern was also corroborated by girls' reports: They commonly admitted to being perpetrators. A number of national surveys have found that U.
But the new study conflicts with those findings, said lead researcher Dennis Reidy, of the division of violence prevention at the U.
Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. Regardless, he added, the study points out that boys can be victims, too. The findings are based on more than 1, kids ages 11 to 17 who were surveyed about a wide range of dating violence. They were asked not only about physical abuse, but also how often they'd been sexually victimized -- including having a boyfriend or girlfriend pressure them to have sex, or spread "sexual rumors" about them.
The researchers also asked about psychological and emotional abuse -- like being yelled at, threatened or called names. Overall, almost 11 percent of boys said they'd been physically abused by a dating partner at least three times. That compared with slightly less than 8 percent of girls.
And a similar percentage of girls and boys -- around 4 percent -- said they'd been injured. When it came to psychological abuse, 29 percent of boys and almost 34 percent of girls said they'd been victimized at least three times. Slightly more than 14 percent of boys and 12 percent of girls said they'd been sexually victimized that many times. The findings on sexual victimization might sound particularly surprising, Reidy said.
For me, it started with emotional.
Then, it escalated to physical. I was in a relationship with an older woman. What made it worse, was that she experienced a life of domestic abuse. She grew up with with her parents and then in a martial relationship as well. It was later on in our relationship that I found out about it, but because I loved her, I stayed, even as the abuse got worse, even when it started to be physical. I never fought back.
I am the kind of person, kind of man who is a very quiet person. It all came to a head when she broke into my house and assaulted me. Once I let her go, she became a wild person.
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She started throwing things at at me. Then, it all came down hard when she then a flashlight at my face. I felt my face being very wet, as it was early morning during the fall and my room was nearly dark. I went to the bathroom and turned on the lights, my face was all bloodied. My bed clothes…I looked like I had taken a swim in a pool of blood.
I called the police. She kept trying to take the phone away from me. And I called About 45 mins later when they came, they questioned both of us.
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Of course, she went on saying that it wa my fault and that I hurt her and everything, even though there was no bruise on her. But me, I was constantly bleeding. And I was so embarrassed, as I was standing outside, bleeding and 2 police cars blocking the driveway and my neighbors, passing by seeing everything. After the police questioned use, they came to me and said only one thing, do i want to press charges against her. It was so cut and dry.